Usher in 2009!

When I last left so much shyt had occurred, but I am so happy to report it is all over! I have not talked to Mr. LA and don’t plan on it…. I guess he didn’t get the memo that I don’t do A$sholes. Still working on Mr. Isolation and ridding myself of him it’s so easy because he eliminates himself by his actions, thoughts, and words. I wish I could get that thing done on me like Jim Carey attempted to have done on him in Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind then it would be a whole lot easier! But I know for one thing I am tired of my feelings being hurt and being sad after my fab Saturday/Sunday date I am determined to not shed another tear over a worthless nagga….

On Saturday I went and chilled out with Mr. Bail bondsman… I went to his house because I am nosey and wanted to see what the house looked like, how he kept it, and I wanted to be in his element. I was soooo tired and nervous on my way over and it was foggy!! But I drove over there anyway (Jac googled his neighborhood to tell me what houses were looking like in those parts.. teehee), I get in the neighborhood but am driving aimlessly around for about 10-15 min because I couldn’t see and I refused to do any slow creeping or put on my glasses  good thing he wasn’t there to  see this, but I finally found the house so I parked in the drive way and then did my “I’m here” call. He was 10 minutes away at his friends house! Great I am thinking gotta wait again!! Anyhow he pulls up speeding in the driveway like a bat outta heck! His friends gets out smiles and waves, I smile too…. wondering if anything was said about me…. Then I see him, I had honestly forgot what he looked like, I mean we talk daily but hadn’t seen each other since the Christmas party… I am breathless cause he is really handsome!! So I am cheesing feeling extra cute and confident in my ensemble of choice- black semi-backless turtleneck, black & electric blue hounds-tooth  highwaisted skirt, and black opaques and some black patent heels!! I felt it put me in the mood to chill at the house or even go get drinks…. When we got inside he gave me a nice hug and smiled at me. He checked out my shoes and told me how much he likes to see a women in heels (I was definitely cheesing at this). We settled in, talked, and channeled surfed, he fixed us some drinks then we both got hungry so we went out  and got a pizza and came back to the house and  continued chatting, drinking, and eating. He even asked what I was looking for. I looked at him and told him I just wanted to be genuinely happy. I then asked him he said he wasn’t looking hard but if a relationship developed he wouldn’t be opposed to it! Hmmm… things that make you go hmmm…. Then the infamous yawning started happening. I had already changed into his sweats so that I could eat and chill comfortably….. We went to sleep

The next morning I woke up to bacon, eggs, and pancakes with a side of OJ! We ate watched TV…  Something on HGTV and then I learned that he was into home improvement and had did all the work in his home except for any plumbing or electrical work! Afterwards I got dressed in some clothes I keep in an overnight bag in my car while he got ready to go to Home Depot! He walked me to my car and we hugged! It was nice and tight! Then I left!

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Sunday I had my date with Swagga 3000. I cooked, was skeptical and didn’t really wanna hang out with him at first after the stunt he pulled on Saturday but I went ahead! We had a good time… he enjoyed the food and luckily didn’t try to sleep with me or anything! We just watched some All American Football game and talked… It’s amazing but I don’t think I like him too much anymore… I don’t know if it’s due to Mr. Bail Bondsman or what… but the thrill is gone. It’s funny cause yesterday he called from work… today he’s texting asking how I am feeling. Maybe I am tripping….

P.S. Swagga 3000 got himself into hot water because he accused me of not calling (when I did), his phone is just a piece of expensive crap that didnt pick up the call! He was really argumentative about it and didnt even try to see it my way. I mean I almost felt like I was in a spat with someone I was in a relationship with…. WTF? Me no likey!