So I promised myself after Mr. Isolation I would be extra careful who I allowed in my space especially my heart… it’s kinda hard though after meeting Mr. Bailbondsman. I am really feeling him and thinks he is a good person for me. I’ve always felt that the person you are with should make you want to be better… and for me he does that. I know its to early to be saying this is my husband and ish… but I think he is definitely boyfriend material. I know Comeback… I still need to multi-task until that becomes official, but I am really thinking about not mt’ing too hard that I miss out on this good thing (still figuring out what that means because I do like male attention- a lot). I am still learning him and his personality so I’m not gonna count the chickens before they hatch but he makes me feel good and I love the commonalities that we both share. I can’t wait to see what happens in our sitcome….’
P.S. Date 3 is happening this wknd- I will be cooking. So far I am thinking of preparing Dover Sole, probably some prawns, a rice dish or potato dish, and of course a vegetable. The dessert will consist of Key Lime Pie!
Any thoughts?? Any ideas?? I’m open and not easily hurt by comments 
Ok ok I have validated Holister
Comment by Jac is a NATURAL WOMAN! — January 15, 2009 @ 12:04 pm
I think BBM is a good one for you. I also think you gotta watch him…and such but other than that I’m for it.
Comment by Jac is a NATURAL WOMAN! — January 15, 2009 @ 12:09 pm
What u think I should watch??
Comment by holly — January 15, 2009 @ 12:10 pm
Hollies you seem to know what you want, but just be sure to balance your heart with your head. And no don’t over think or anything, but do what feels righ to you WHOLISTICALLY. Sounds like you genuinely like dude, just be sure you’re not in it by yourself.
Comment by Enchantment Passing Through — January 15, 2009 @ 12:11 pm
U’re right jada! I am I aint professing nothing to him! I’m gonna let him make the move but I will say if after 3-5 mos the talk hasn’t happened I’m def out!
Comment by holly — January 15, 2009 @ 12:15 pm
See how he acts…watch for shady activities.
Comment by Jac is a NATURAL WOMAN! — January 15, 2009 @ 12:15 pm
See this is a perfect example why we should multi-task. 2 days in and you ready to wife him up. Do you know if he feels the same way (not trying to hicks you (read: shat on the party) BUT I just want you to be careful with your heart and one way to do that is to multi-task ever so slightly.
Comment by Jolie Fatale — January 15, 2009 @ 12:15 pm
@ Jac- i will! thus far he goes out but not like that… he is always doing something in his house…
@Jolie- Im def gonna multi-task aint giving it up totally just gonna reduce the numbers a little… and I won’t be asking him to be my bf…. he gonna have to do that!
Comment by Holly GoLightly — January 15, 2009 @ 12:17 pm
Now see this is where I get lost at, you like the dude making plans (in your head I know don’t lie) so just keep it real with the man, if he aint where u are I would rather you know NOW than 5 months you cryin talmbout that bastard this n that….
im just sayin keep it all the way real, I wouldn’t X the players u already got but i will most def let the benzo know I am diggin him like a grave. If it runs him off then well his loss.
thats my 1.99 cents
Comment by Anitra — January 15, 2009 @ 12:35 pm
Lol! Actually mik we have had a talk. He is not opposed to being a relationship at all! Otherwise if he didn’t his arse would be grass!
Comment by holly — January 15, 2009 @ 12:37 pm
oOK! stank ya holly stank ya!
thats what im talmbout see u should be teachin US lol
Comment by Anitra — January 15, 2009 @ 12:43 pm
Lol! He actually asked me what I was looking for!! So that took pressure off me!
Comment by holly — January 15, 2009 @ 12:57 pm