Multi-Tasking & Making a PBF

Ohhh Boy!! I tell ya Bailbondsman really has this little southern girl swooning over his crooning!! And then enters Mr. JD getting my MBA (long name I know but cant think of anything catchy right now)!! Mr. JD/MBA came in the picture by way of Ms. Jolie Fatale and her task to make sure that little Holly is still multi-tasking the heck outta Bailbondsman!

So since my job revoked my already PTO I couldn’t go to DC and be in the moment…. I was sad and thought my Martin Luther “The King” weekend was not gonna be too good. Pretty much knew I would see Bailbondsman because we kinda have developed a trend… We made plans on Thursday to hang out on Saturday. This was gonna be our third date and he had cooked breakfast for me so I though he would have been nice to prepare dinner and bring it with me to his house. So I sent a little text asking what does he not eat. His reply was he couldn’t tell me right off but asked what did I have in mind… I say well I was thinking about making Baked Ziti. The next response kinda crushed me, he said No I’m good tonight on the cooking. But can I get a raincheck? I was like WTF? Does he know I don’t cook for everybody!! So I asked well are we still on? He said yes, just no cooking. So in my mind I am thinking this ninja must think I cant cook… HMPH! So I went ahead continued relaxing at home until it was time to get ready! So when I got to his house we chilled.. it was FREEEEZZING out! We watched some movies had some drinks… I asked him about me cooking and if he told me not to cook because he didnt think I could… well apparently he didn’t know what the dish was because he asked me what was in it… P.S. He’s a picky eater. It was a nice time the next day I got up and left for home, he had some work to finish on his house. This time I didn’t wait around for breakfast, I didn’t want him to think everytime I’m there I’m expecting him to fix me something to eat, but I did ask if he wanted me to bring him something. He said no and walked me to my car…. Ahhhhh I like him….

Sunday went by a little slow… I talked to the guy that Jolie set me up with, Mr. JD getting my MBA… Jolie had actually made the connection on last Wednesday but we still hadn’t met…. so he then asked if I wanted to meet for drinks… I was like sure lets go! He gave me the option of a place… he told me he liked a certain restaurant so I said hey why not go there! Now while getting dressed I realized that this was playoff Sunday and the last teams were playing, The Ravens and The Steelers. Now most of you know that in 2008 I vowed to learn the sport of football, mostly cause I know/knew NOTHING about it and second because men like it. I also love Ray Lewis and I wanted to see the game myself! So we met at the restaurant… it’s kinda funny cause I don’t know what he expected but we were both friends on facebook so I’m sure he saw ALLLLL my crazy pics… and I of course had seen his so I knew what to look for. He was just what I expected- tall, handsome, with a nice smile. So we sat down talked about a little of this and a little of that. Pretty much touched on everything and we had drinks…. a lot of drinks! We also talked about football. I told him I was attempting to learn the sport. So after mass drinking and me announcing that I hadn’t had dinner and probably needing to put something on my stomach we left. He walked me to my car, but on the way as we were talking and he mentioned needing to call Jolie and let her now I was fine it was then that I fell… just tumbled down… OMG!!! But he laughed thank God he wasn’t mortified. I don’t think he realized I had toooo many drinks… but we laughed, hugged. bidded each other adieu! We talked on the phone all the way until I got home. It was nice and sweet.. he was def a gentlemen!! THX JOLIE!!! I HEART YOU!! YOU ARE A MAID OF HONOR IF THIS GOES ANY FURTHER!! By the way he and I are going out tonight! Going for Hibachi!!

So it’s Monday, I wake up at 5 AM!!! Suffering from a hangover and and near death smelling the greasy food I consumed last night…. So I got up drunk some water and tried to  revive myself. In the meantime I started watching Love Jones…. awww such a classic. I started wondering who and where is my Darius Lovehall…. At about 1 I finally got up… I never made it back to sleep… But I got up and prepared myself to go to the MLK parade with my bestie… at least that where I thought I was going, but this a$$hole tricked me!! We ended up going to try and feed the hungry/homeless!!!! Now I have no problem giving back but d@mmit I wasn’t dressed and I was suffering from a hangover and had post-drunk hunger!!!!!!!! D@mmit I was the hungry!! But I sucked it up and attempted to do my duty got mankind. After the dogooderness we went for pizza and we talked and we really had a heart to heart. I like having a male as a bestfriend… he kinda gives that male insight on actions, thoughts, expressions. So we leave I go home and learn it’s suppose to snow!! So as a cutesy way I sent Bailbondsman a text saying, “Its suppose to snow tonight! Can I come cuddle with you?” The response I got was, “tonight isnt good still finishing up on the garage.” Pissed was the mood (He is remodeling a former garage in his home and turning it into another guestroom). I go over to my friends house and just hang out with her… I then start hearing Kanye’s Streetlights (this is his ring tone) he is calling me and saying he thought he would be finished doing what he was doing pretty late but he was actually done and that if the offer was still in place he would like for me to come over. I told him I would call him in 30 minutes, trying to play cool knowing I was all giddy inside… So I called back in 40 minutes, after I went home and gathered my things for work and told him I was on my way. So I got there and brother was there… I smiled and said hi. They were watching some program on TV.  Then brother left and it was just us. We talked more had some wine then went to sleep. At 5 am we woke up and started watching the pre-inaug coverage. I left at 7 and went to work….. No plans made for the wknd yet.

Oh yeah I left my hat at his house he hasn’t said anything about it yet, I guess he’s just holding onto it for the next time I see him….