Well since my last post a lot has happened! I guess it would being that my last post was about 2 wks ago! Lol! Well for one its official between Bailbondsman and I- we’re exclusive. I’ve even stopped counting our dates because the frequency picked up!! Lol! We are currently avging about 4-5 days of seeing each other outta a week. My roster has def dwindled… I have maybe 2 people I speak with via phone but time has been going to him and my new love- the gym!! I’m telling I’m getting it together in that department! And not that I was overweight but I was complaining and not doing shat!! But I’m happy thus far, there are no complaints and it feels easy and free flowing. Def doesn’t feel pushed. He is so chill too compared to me- the over-the-top hyper chick. He is truly showing me what it means to just relax. He also relates well to my kids (my dogs- Mimi and Pedro). His first meeting with them was thursday! They barked of course and carried on with their whining for 75% of the time he was here but not once did he complain or say do they always do that. He accepted them and they little spoiled flaws. He saw my daily confirmations (what I need to do for the day, what not to do, bible verses) and didn’t question it. By the way this was his first time at Chez Holly! I guess he liked the digs cause he came back on Saturday! Lol! But he accepted me and didn’t come in asking why is this and what are these. It was what it was. We are still in the honeymoon phase but we def have discussed expectations, deal breakers, and bad habits- and we’re still bringing up things we may have forgotten. We also discuss our values and views on world issues. And because of our different careers we are able to teach each other diff things- although he’s pretty familiar with investing. So far I’m enjoying the view on this yacht and can’t wait for the first port that we dock. I’m pretty convinced representatives are packing up.
As for Mr. MBA he’s still we talk but not that much, mostly through IM or text…. he’s a really sweet person with a great sense of humor and amazing goals!! Don’t when date 2 will happen. He had to reschedule our last date…
So do tell any thoughts? Advice? Feelings?
*cues up Vanessa and Brian Love IS*
OK…I like BB the only thing I can say is prepare yourself for the fact that love really is everything it is cracked up to be and that’s why people fight for it so viciously. That said, don’t rush…don’t tarry, just enjoy! I think he’s a good guy…not a rep…
I love you!!!! And I’m so happy for you!
Comment by Jaci — February 3, 2009 @ 10:56 am
Awww thx Jac! I’m def enjoying the time and what it is!
Comment by Holly GoLightly — February 3, 2009 @ 10:58 am
This is nice Holister. I am SO HAPPY for you and best of all it sounds..(my fav. dating words) fluid and organic. YAY.
Comment by thecomebackgirl — February 3, 2009 @ 11:07 am
“fluid and organic.”
Yes Comeback that is the best part… it’s not forced. But I am still aware of pixie dust so I am def keeping the third eye out… I like him but I am being pragmatic and realistic too!
Comment by Holly GoLightly — February 3, 2009 @ 11:10 am
Good for you lady…he sounds like a winner!
We’re going to have to work on your delivery though…lol.
Comment by Tea — February 3, 2009 @ 11:13 am
Ya’ll Im so serious about just wanting to be happy, of course not with bullshyt and harmful people/things, but I am serious about being happy with someone I can grow with and learn… I think a lot of times we as women forget about the things that truly make us happy even the simpliest things!
Comment by Holly GoLightly — February 3, 2009 @ 11:14 am
@Tea- Thanks!! What delivery? Whatchutalkinbout Willis?? I have ADD Tea I wish I could write in great detail like you… man I have the blackberry maybe I need to be writing things immediately after they happen cause I am so serious about paraphrasing and summarizing! LOL!
Comment by Holly GoLightly — February 3, 2009 @ 11:16 am
I hear wedding bells.
Comment by Gold — February 3, 2009 @ 3:34 pm
Hey Gold! Thx and I dont know why that comment had me breathless but iunno we’ll see!!! He is a pretty special guy though!!! It’s cute cause now we are doing the morning thing of texts and calls while on the way to work.
Comment by Holly GoLightly — February 3, 2009 @ 3:38 pm