So I promised myself after Mr. Isolation I would be extra careful who I allowed in my space especially my heart… it’s kinda hard though after meeting Mr. Bailbondsman. I am really feeling him and thinks he is a good person for me. I’ve always felt that the person you are with should make you want to be better… and for me he does that. I know its to early to be saying this is my husband and ish… but I think he is definitely boyfriend material. I know Comeback… I still need to multi-task until that becomes official, but I am really thinking about not mt’ing too hard that I miss out on this good thing (still figuring out what that means because I do like male attention- a lot). I am still learning him and his personality so I’m not gonna count the chickens before they hatch but he makes me feel good and I love the commonalities that we both share. I can’t wait to see what happens in our sitcome….’
P.S. Date 3 is happening this wknd- I will be cooking. So far I am thinking of preparing Dover Sole, probably some prawns, a rice dish or potato dish, and of course a vegetable. The dessert will consist of Key Lime Pie!
Any thoughts?? Any ideas?? I’m open and not easily hurt by comments 
Tonight I had a get together at my house with two of girlfriends for a little fellowship over food and booze…. two great combinations. As always the topic was guys, I filled them in on the situation that occurred with Mr. Isolation last night and my great revelation regarding Mr. LA and in turn they anointed me with words of wisdom. Some things I knew but wasn’t putting into practice, but after talking to them and reading/participating in a certain blog today I definitely feel the need to change the game up. My girls words of wisdom were pretty much to “keep your heart three stacks” and not give in so easily to things… even if the guy is saying and doing everything you like don’t put your cards all the way out there. Their advice was to be up for the chase don’t make it easy… The topic of the blog today was women knowing their worth and not letting a man determine it for them. After these two insightful things and the situations with both Mr. LA and Mr. Isolation I have definitely decided to take a more active role to make sure that at the end of the day I am happy and not feeling like I am receiving the short end of the stick. The only thing is I hate playing games. I feel like I shouldn’t have to do this, but I guess if I want to be taken seriously and make sure that a man feels like he isn’t getting the best of me then I better start somewhere…. and there is no time like the present.
Carpe Diem! Cease the Day!
